Two of them, stated that in most if not all cases, for a man to choose this, he needed to have a deep conviction driving it, a conviction that gripped him stronger than the physical desire. I hope we will see you again! Why was the discussion so volatile on C19? There is no rule that says we must agree. And then he meets Margaret. This made the beginning; this taught me self-denial…I thank her silently on each occasion for the early training she gave me. Just one more piece of evidence for his values and self control.