Time and time again, the guys that I asked about what it was that they loved about blowjobs told me that it was about feeling deeply accepted by their partner. Truth be told, over a third of the men that I asked what specifically it was that they liked about blowjobs were unable to articulate it. They felt deeply accepted by their partner during oral sex. Do you have a discount code? The author who took this theory and ran with it then went on to say that women had an almost inverse response predominantly choosing love over respect. So, without further ado, here are the three biggest reasons that men love blowjobs… with a few direct quotes from some of my male coaching clients whom I emailed for their input sprinkled throughout.